Okay, at this point I’ve told you enough to make a dramatic change in your dating life. But there’s always the question: “How can you really tell if a
woman is interested in you?”
Okay, here are some ways that you can find out whether she’s interested or not…
Not All Women Are the Same
So, first it’s important to understand that only about 1% of the general population (men and women alike) know what they really want in a relationship. So you are always going to be getting confusing signals from women, and some women will lose interest the moment that they realize they “have you where they want you.”
We’ll be talking more about how to keep this from happening in later posts. But it’s important that you understand what you are up against. Other than that, what you are about to discover is that most “interest indications” are communicated through a woman’s body language.
Here are three things to look for…
This is when a woman does one of the following: combs her hair back over her ear, rubs or scratches herself on
the neck or collar bone, strokes her wrists or the top of her hand or sometimes her cheek.
Body language experts tell us that these are the subconscious indications that a woman might be attracted. Women don’t realize that they are doing this, and that’s a good thing. This means that they can’t hide their interest or fake it.
All you have to do is know what to look for.
2. Pupil Dilation
You might have heard that the eyes are the windows of the soul, and this is certainly true when it comes to reading a person’s genuine desires. This not just an enormous indicator interest, it also tells you whether or not a woman is aroused sexually. Of course, it’s
difficult to see this in some women or in some settings.
But if you can get close enough (or if you have really good eyes), pupil dilation almost always guarantees that
you have a shot.
This physical reaction is so important when it comes to determining a person’s interest that marketing and
advertising experts have conducted millions of dollars worth of research to determine which sounds, words,
symbols, colors and tastes spur this response in people.
3. A Second Glance
This one is perfect if you are trying to determine the interest of a woman you just saw and have not yet met. Wait for her to look over at you (she very likely will at least once).
When she does, don’t smile or wave or give any indication of interest. Just look back at her until she looks away (it will only be a few seconds…at most).
If she looks away and towards the floor, or even to the side, look down at your watch…wait 45 seconds, and
see if she looks back at you before the 45 seconds is up. If she does, she’s probably at least interested in being approached.
One word of caution, you MUST act fast once you see these things! Remember, for us women, timing is everything. If you miss your cue and don’t make a move, her interest will be gone and you might never get it back.
Of course, without the key ingredient of self confidence you are never going to be able to pull this off effectively, which is why you must check out ‘Supreme Self Confidence’
This is stuff that will change your life, not just your dating success!
Now, for the next post, we’ll be changing gears just a little bit and talking about how to recover from a break up. The advice won’t be what you expect I’m sure…but the results will be out of this world.
You’ll see what I mean…
Chat to you soon.